The quiet voice within

How to start listening to yourself

02 Apr 2025
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Our intuition, deepest desires, and emotions often come to us as a quiet inner voice – a compass amid informational noise, opinions, and daily rush. Learning to hear it means learning to understand your true wants and living your most authentic life.

Slow down and find your silence 

When the outer world consumes your attention, your inner voice fades into the background. To reconnect, try these simple ways to restore that connection:

  • Make time for silence – no music, no social media, no conversations.
  • Take solo walks.
  • Create quiet rituals, like enjoying your morning tea without a phone. 

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Start journaling your thoughts and feelings 

Writing down your thoughts helps you notice recurring emotions, desires, and worries. Over time, these entries reveal what truly matters to you. Try answering the following questions:

  • What’s troubling me right now?
  • What brings me joy?
  • What do I really want? 

Develop mindfulness 

Intuition often speaks through body sensations and emotions. Learn to notice: where do you feel tension when saying “yes” to something you don’t want? What moments fill you with energy and inspiration? When do you feel resistance, and when do you feel relief? Honesty with yourself is the first step to clarity and healing. 

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Learn to distinguish fear from intuition 

If you picture it, fear tends to speak loudly – demanding, dramatic, urgent. Intuition, on the other hand, speaks softly – calm, steady, and sure. If you’re struggling to tell the difference, try asking yourself: “If I weren’t afraid, what would I do?” Admitting your true desires isn’t always easy. But with time and practice, you’ll learn to recognize and trust the quiet wisdom within.

Practice small acts of self-trust 

Listening to yourself means choosing mindfully, not out of habit. Start small: choose food based on what you really want, not what you think you “should” eat. Wear what feels good, not what’s expected. Say “no” when something doesn’t feel right, even in the little things. These tiny steps build a strong foundation of trust in yourself and your intuition.

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Stop seeking constant validation

The less we rely on outside approval, the more clearly we hear our own voice. That doesn’t mean ignoring advice or others’ wisdom – it means remembering that you know what’s right for you. Listen openly, but let your inner knowing have the final say.

Try meditation and breathwork

These practices help quiet the noise and tune into your inner self. Just five minutes a day can make a noticeable difference.

02 Apr 2025
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