Wedding myths: truth or folklore?

For centuries, traditions, beliefs, and superstitions have been passed down through generations, shaping wedding customs that continue to hold significance today. These rituals often carry hidden meanings steeped in symbolism and history. The wedding section of ELLE O’zbekiston takes a closer look at some of the most popular wedding myths, uncovering their origins and whether they hold any real cultural or historical foundation or if they are simply time-honored traditions with no logical basis.

The groom must not see the bride in her wedding dress before the ceremony 

This age-old superstition dates back to a time when arranged marriages were common, and couples often had never met before their wedding day. The belief was that if the groom saw the bride in her wedding gown beforehand, he might change his mind and refuse the marriage. Today, this tradition is upheld more for the sake of romance and surprise rather than superstition. Many modern couples even embrace the "first look" – a private moment before the ceremony when the groom sees the bride for the first time, making the occasion even more emotional and intimate. 

Rain on the wedding day means good luck 

Many cultures believe that rain on a wedding day is a sign of prosperity and happiness in marriage. In some traditions, raindrops symbolize the tears the bride has already shed, ensuring a joyful future. Others associate rain with fertility and abundance, as it nourishes the earth and brings new growth. In reality, rain may pose some logistical challenges, but many couples plan ahead by getting umbrellas and planning a backup plan for the photo shoot, ensuring their special day remains magical! 

The wedding ring should never be taken off

Some superstitions claim that removing your wedding ring could lead to relationship troubles or even divorce. However, there is no scientific or historical evidence to support this belief. A wedding ring is a symbol of love and commitment, not a magical charm. Many people remove their rings for practical reasons, such as during exercise, work, or skincare routines. What truly matters is the love and respect between partners, not whether the ring remains on their finger at all times. 

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Pearls on the bride mean tears in marriage 

An old superstition warns that wearing pearls on your wedding day will bring sadness and tears in married life. However, in many other cultures, pearls are seen as a symbol of purity, wisdom, and elegance. Today, many brides embrace pearl jewelry, appreciating its timeless beauty and sophistication. Interestingly, pearls take years to form inside oysters, making them a symbol of resilience and transformation, perfectly fitting for a marriage built on strength and love. 

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The wedding dress must be white 

The idea that a wedding dress must be white is actually a relatively modern tradition. White became the standard bridal color only after Queen Victoria chose to wear a white gown for her wedding in 1840. Before that, brides wore a variety of colors, including gold, blue, and even red. In some cultures, white is associated with mourning, and wedding dresses are traditionally vibrant. For example, in India, brides wear red saris, symbolizing prosperity and good fortune. Today, more brides are breaking away from tradition, choosing gowns in champagne, blush, a 

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Knives or clocks should not be given as a wedding gift 

A long-standing belief suggests that gifting knives symbolizes cutting the bond between a couple, while clocks are thought to count down the time until their separation. These superstitions stem from ancient beliefs, where sharp objects were thought to "cut ties" between people. However, in modern times, these fears have largely faded. Many couples appreciate high-quality kitchen sets or designer knives as practical and stylish gifts. Similarly, luxury watches can be seen as a symbol of timeless love, especially when passed down as heirlooms. 

A bride shouldn’t see herself in the mirror in full attire before the wedding 

According to legend, if a bride sees herself fully dressed in the mirror before the wedding, she might attract bad luck or “steal her own happiness.” In reality, this myth has no basis. The ability to see oneself fully prepared allows the bride to ensure every detail is perfect. Many stylists encourage brides to do a final fitting with their gown, makeup, and hair, so they feel confident and radiant on their special day.

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Throwing the bouquet 

The tradition of throwing the bridal bouquet dates back centuries and is rooted in symbolism and folklore. In medieval England and across Europe, brides began throwing their bouquets as a charm of good luck. Over time, this playful custom evolved, and today, whoever catches the bouquet is said to be the next to get married. While it remains a fun tradition, its true significance lies in spreading joy, excitement, and hope for the future.

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